I can’t figure out how to change not where the bullet point starts, but the space between the bullet point and where the words begin?
Text starts at the tab stop. Adjust the tab stop if you want, then create a style from that paragraph so you can easily apply it.
Maybe I’m doing it wrong, but when I did that the font size got way bigger?
Set the font size the way you want it.
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