Hi.
I have created a set of indented styles you could use.
And then you could manually insert the bullets. Use auto-replace,
something like /.. → • for example.
Ultimately, if there is no fix to your issue (with which I can’t otherwise help – I don’t really use lists, don’t own a Mac either), that could be a compromise.
My post with the downloadable indented styles.
You apply those to normal text, not to a list per se. It’ll make it look like a list.
(And it should survive the cross-platform transitions.)