Hey @thegirlclaudia - yeah Vic was a much loved forum regular who sadly passed away last year. For many of us, he was the forum. Despite only knowing him virtually through the interweb, he was as good a friend as I have had in life and I suspect others could say the same.
We also lost Montrée a few years back, who is the other person mentioned in the book dedications. Without her passion and enthusiasm for NiaD I would most likely have quit a long time ago. Sadly, I learnt more about what a wonderful person she was after she died than before, which is most definitely my loss.
I’m really sorry to hear about your late boyfriend, GJM. It sounds like his loss is and will continue to be keenly felt. You’ve got my email address if you want to talk.